Always Give Your Hundred Percent In Any Relationship...

Life is Beautiful...

A boy 'n a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her.

The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest 'n the most beautiful marble aside 'n gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story:
If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.

This is How we Miss Out Something Called 'Life'...

Missing something in life...

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.They were a loving couple 'n the boy was the gem of their eyes...

When the boy was around two years old,one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle 'n keep it in the cupboard.

His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.The boy saw the bottle 'n playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color 'n drank it all.

It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital,where he died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital 'n saw the dead child,
he looked at his wife 'n uttered just five words.




QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?




ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead.. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation 'n sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. " A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, 'n fears. 'n you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think..




MORAL OF THE STORY:

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship,in a job or with the people we know.

By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.. !

4 boy friends‏...

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect...

Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most 'n adored him with rich robes 'n treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.


She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much 'n was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.



She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant 'n was always kind, considerate 'n patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, 'n he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner 'n had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth 'n kingdom. However, she d id not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him!

One day, the girl fell ill 'n she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life 'n wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, 'I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing 'n showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me 'n keep me company?'

'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, 'n he walked away without another word..

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me 'n keep me company?'


'No!', replied the 3rd boyfriend. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!'


Her heart sank 'n turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always
turned to you for help 'n you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me 'n keep me company?'

'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the 2nd boyfriend. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, 'n the girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go..'

The girl looked up, 'n there was his first boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition 'n neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!'

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time 'n effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.


Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status 'n wealth.When you die, it will all go to others.


Your 2nd boyfriend is your family 'n friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.

'n your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power 'n pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go.Cultivate, strengthen 'n cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God 'n continue with you throughout Eternity.

Thought for the day:Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees,you're in the perfect position to pray.

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Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.. !

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Life Throws A Brick At You...

How many times did life throws a brick at you to get your attention. I guess that we are all too easily distracted. TV, commercials, radio 'n advertisement 'n toys – too much of these things have drowned out life’s voice.

A young 'n successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars 'n slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared, instead, a brick smashed into the Jaguar's side door. He slammed on the brakes 'n spun the Jaguar back to the spot from where the brick had been thrown.

He jumped out of the car, grabbed some kid 'n pushed him up against a parked car, shouting, "What was that all about 'n who are you? Just what the heck are you doing?" Building up a head of steam, he went on. "That's a new car 'n that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"

"Please, mister, please, I'm sorry. I didn't know what else to do!" pleaded the youngster. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop."

Tears were dripping down the boy's chin as he pointed around the parked car. "It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb 'n fell out of his wheelchair 'n I can't lift him up." Sobbing, the boy asked the executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt 'n he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He lifted the young man back into the wheelchair 'n took out his handkerchief 'n wiped the scrapes 'n cuts, checking to see that everything was going to be okay.

"Thank you, sir. 'n God bless you," the grateful child said to him. The man then watched the little boy push his brother to the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long walk back to his Jaguar... a long, slow walk. He never did repair the side door. He kept the dent to remind him not to go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention.

Moral :

Life whispers in your soul 'n speaks to your heart. Sometimes, when you don't have the time to listen... Life throws a brick at your head. It's your choice: Listen to the whispers of your soul or wait for the brick. Do you sometimes ignore loved ones because your life is too fast 'n busy leaving them to wonder whether you really love them?

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A Story to Tell...

At this moment, there are over 6 billion people in this world. 'n at this moment, over 6 billion different stories are being written, 'n one of them is your own 'n unfortunately, in each one of these stories, there in a tragedy that is tucked away within it’s pages. A tear smearing the ink due to an indescribable sadness. 'n there are monsters of cruel intent that mocks 'n ridicules you into disparity 'n humility.

There will be times when we battling a war by ourselves because we get to self-absorbed into our own stories that we forget to look at others. All you have to do is open your eyes to the news, to status’, 'n to random posts on this very website to realize the problems every soul on this earth is facing.

So remember, we all have a story to tell, 'n yours is not the only one that’s being told. Sometimes our stories can intermingle with others…'n we can help each other out. Just remember, you’re never alone even when you feel like there is no one else is a part of the story that you are a part of. Chances are, other people are feeling the same way.

Conversation between GOD 'n ME...

Conversation between GOD 'n ME
God : Hello. Did you call me ?

Me: Called you? No.. Who is this ?

God : This is GOD. I heard your prayer. So I thought I will chat.

Me: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now. I am in the midst of something. God : What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.

Me: Don't know. But I cant find free time. Life has become hectic. It's rush hour all the time. God : Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results. Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.

Me: I understand. But I still can't figure out. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.
God : Well I wanted to resolve your! Fight for time,by giving you some clarity. In this net era, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are comfortable with.

Me: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?

God : Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated .

Me: why are we then constantly unhappy?

God : Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday.You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.

Me: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?
 
God : Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Me: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty. .

God : Pain is inevitable able, but suffering is optional.

Me: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?

God : Diamond cannot be polished without friction.Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer. With that experience their life become better not bitter. Me: You mean to say such experience is useful?

God : Yes. In every terms, Experience is a hard teacher . She gives the test first 'n the lessons afterwards.
Me: But still, why should we go through such tests?Why cant we be free from problems?

God : Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons (to) Enhance Mental Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle 'n endurance, not when you! Are free from problems.

Me: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading..

God : If you look outside you will not know where you are heading.Look inside. Looking outside, you dream.Looking inside, you awaken. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides insight.

Me: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction. What should I do?

God : Success is a measure as decided by others.Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you. Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you rode ahead. You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.

Me: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?

God : Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing,not what you are missing .
Me: What surprises you about people?

God : when they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me" Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want to be on the side of the truth.

Me: Sometimes I ask, who am I, why am I here. I cant get the answer.

God : Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be. Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it. Life is not a process of discovery but a process of creation.

Me: How can I get the best out of life?

God : Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear .
Me: One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.

God : There are no unanswered prayers. At times the answer is NO.

Me: Thank you for this wonderful chat.

God : Well. Keep the faith 'n drop the fear . Don't believe your doubts 'n doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve. Trust me.Life is wonderful if you know how to live. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that took our breath away!

Please Give time to People who love You...

Please Give time to People who love You..

Nice story-
A tired man came home late from his whole day hard work.
His 5 year old son was waiting for him at the door.

Son- Dad, May I ask You a Question ?

Dad- ya

Son- Dad, How much do you make an hour?

Dad - that's not your business.

Son- Please tel me.

Dad- 20 $ per hour.

Son- Dad,May I please borrow 10 $ .?

Dad Got Angry 'n shouted on the kid to go to the bed.
The little boy went to the room 'n shut the door.

After sometime man got calm 'n
he went to kid's room 'n said-
Sorry for being so hard. Here's Your 10 $ u asked for.

Kid smiled- ohhh... Thank You So Much daddy !
Then boy took out some coins he had kept under the pillow,
he counted them 'n said-

"Dad, I have 20 $ now.
Can I buy an hour of your time ?

Please come home early Tomorrow.
I would like to have dinner with You."

Moral - Please Give time to People who love You.. !

Share the story with People You love...
But even Better,
share 20 $ worth of time with someone you Really Love 'n Care.. !

Life is not a race...

Life is not a Race...

This quote was written by a girl who is dying with cancer.
They told the Girl that she would die in approx. 6 months.

Have you Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.The music won't last.

Do you run through each day On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done Do you lie in your bed With the next hundred chores Running through your head?

You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.The music won't last.

Ever told your child, We'll do it tomorrow?
'n in your haste, Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch, Let a good friendship die Cause you never had time To call 'n say,'Hi' You'd better slow down.Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.the music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry 'n hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....Thrown away.

Life is not a race.
Do take it slower.... Hear the music Before the song is over.. !

Don't jump to a conclusion directly.. !

Don't jump to a conclusion directly.

Once, An old man 'n His 24 years old son were going from New york to teaxs in train.

The Son sat next to the window with his father besides him. The son looking out towards the window shouted,Dad, look the trees going behind.Dad smiled 'n a young couple sitting near, looked at the 24 years old behaving childishly, with pity.

Suddenly he again exclaimed, dad, look the clouds running with us.

The couple couldn't resist 'n said to the old man,
why don't you take your son to a good doctor,

The old man smiled 'n said We did 'n we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth,he just got his eyes today.



Moral:
Don't jump to a conclusion directly...Because what You See Is Most Probably Not The Truth..!